just-shower-thoughts:

The older you get the less willing you are to deal with shitty friends.

lesbiampire:

some of you have ‘identities’ that deserve to be invalidated. some of them are unhealthy, actively hurt disenfranchised groups, or have no basis in material reality. the overbearing identity politics that exists on the internet, this whole postmodernist idea of ‘I say it so I am!’ is completely irrelevant when we’re considering actual oppressions within societies/cultures. it is meaningless.

I saw a post once on here saying ‘some of you deserve to feel less valid’ and I have never seen anything truer. some of you need to get your self-indulgent heads out of your asses too and consider that the entire world doesn’t need to alter itself due to ~your feelings~ and if you think it does, maybe your feelings/identity/whatever are the problem here.

imjunebitch:

it’s genuinely frightening how many “leftist activists” seem to be, above all else, downright chomping at the bit to find groups of people they think they’re allowed to hurt. some of you are downright enthusiastic about finding targets, more than you are about doing anything to lift up marginalized communities, and then some of the targets you find are marginalized communities. like wow asshole good job shitting on “weird queers” that’s awesome you’re really helping everyone out here that’s great. great job talking about all the horrible things you hope happen to the powerless citizens of a country that’s doing terrible things, you’re really showing a lot of compassion, talking about how you hope they all die. You understand that they are also human beings.

like dude fuck off. human rights are for all humans even the ones you don’t like

psiotechniqa:

siryouarebeingmocked:

psiotechniqa:

not-human-never-human-deactivat:

psiotechniqa:

gsirvitor:

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once more, stonetoss tells it like it is

stonetoss is a moronic dipshit but this comic is pretty spot on .

i never understood the hate the j6 protestors got from the left who support this stuff . so its okay if * your * side engages in disruptive protests , but if its the other side, then suddenly laws matter and its bad …? make it make sense,

And this is why even Stonetoss’s haters occatinally have to agree with him.

The reason the left hated J6 so much was because, on some level, they wanted a moral monopoly on riots.

They couldn’t call J6 a “riot”, because they’d look hypocritical after BLM. So it magically became “insurrection”.

Personally, I’m willing to condemn both riots.

I did see a few memes on TheLeftCantMeme trying to call the right hypocrites, and carefully ignoring the actual destruction in LA.

Thing is, if you’re willing to condemn riots on sheer damage, the current LA riots and the BLM riots were/are a lot more destructive and extended than J6.

oh that’s a good point

They want to turn the term “riot” into something positive and rightous

meanerfreerstronger-deactivated:

simon-newman:

eric-coldfire:

feminismisstillahatemovement:

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Teenage me: “Haha, freaks.”

20’s me: “As long as they leave me alone, I’ll leave them alone.”

30’s me: “You freaks need professional help.”

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This is my current state.

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Both of these co-exist.

I’ve said before that I have no hate for Real Trans People.

But the rest? The rest of this shit is genuine social contagion and it is hurting real people.

But this is Tumblr, the hell site where the only victims people care about are deluded adults with the coping skills of children - not the families torn apart or the lives actually genuinely ruined by permanent physical alteration, or the people actually being preyed upon and groomed. Oh no. Jim turned Janet but doesn’t actually have The Issue to want to shave the beard and chest hair matters more, and you WILL hear about it.

penrosesun:

brehaaorgana:

brehaaorgana:

brehaaorgana:

I miss when I would get Tumblr asks that actually said things and weren’t just digital panhandling scams.

If I was a sociologist, I would definitely be doing a study on the methods and language of charity scammers. Especially the use of emojis, and identification by copied messages vs stock phrases.

For example, these four are all the same, with only slight variation in #1:

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(I actually have duplicates from some of the “self-identified” anons above.)

But these two anons share the same new stock phrases:


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“days are heavy” / “days that feel impossibly heavy.”


Fascinated with the random person who commented on this post saying they’ve reported me for “genocide denialism.”

Not to put too fine a tin foil hat on it, but:

  1. That is the kind of threat someone involved in these kinds of financial scams and the social engineering behind them *would* make! It’s a threatening statement to the existence of my blog which usually means heightened fear/anxiety of the target, which makes people more likely to fall for a financial scam. Social shame and embarrassment are also heightened emotions! Bullying works! This would make an excellent social engineering counterpoint (if tugging on heartstrings doesn’t work!) and might even be effective on many people!
  2. Sure, you can search the supposed connected usernames those anons claimed and find out specifics that way — but not a single one of those screenshots I showed specifies what they’re referring to! The IDENTICAL messages from four “different people” never actually mention what their “family’s struggle” even is! There’s zero fucking context in the space of those messages. They’re all IDENTICAL. I literally cannot be committing denialism about anything specific because those asks don’t actually say anything I could be denying. How does this person know that these anons aren’t a recently impoverished Nigerian prince?
  3. So now you’re asking why don’t I just click on the usernames and find out more details? Simple. Because they’re fucking fraudsters who sent me the same message like, six times with 4 different usernames attached AS ANONS. Why as anons if they have their own blogs and could send the messages that way? SIMPLE AGAIN: because if they’re not logged into the blog accounts, you could have whole teams of people copying and pasting these anon asks to various Tumblr users constantly, and you can probably just bypass the ask limits by changing VPNs or going incognito or something. This is a DEDICATED scam. Is it a bot? MAYBE! But that also would explain some of why it doesn’t work *while logged in* to the blog accounts — because being anon probably makes it easier to focus on volume.

Anyways a fool and their money are soon parted.

While we’re on the subject of the incredible gullibility some people display on these scams, I’d just like to remind everyone that most online scams these days are being run out of massive scam farms, which often employ human trafficking.

Falling for these isn’t just an ‘oopsy doopsy, you’re out some money’ sort of a thing. If you send money to obvious scammers and if you platform obvious scammers, you are very likely directly financially supporting modern day slavery. That’s not an exaggeration, and I’m not being alarmist. Please read any of these articles on the subject if you don’t believe me:

This is what you are supporting when you send these people money. It’s not a neutral act to give to these scammers; it’s a horrible, evil act, because in most cases, it directly supports horrific exploitation. And if you really were fooled? If you gave to one of these scammers and you really had no idea what you were probably supporting? Then I’m sorry, but digging your heels in and insisting that the lies you were fed are the truth helps no one. Take your blinders off and face reality, and start doing better.

cheshireinthemiddle:

mencanfckrightoff:

Men call ambitious women ‘villains’ because they know they can’t compete. Fine, I’ll be the villain. And I’ll be better at it than they ever were.

They don’t call you a villain for being “ambitious”. They call you a villain because your actions are bad. Theyre treating you the same as they would any man, but you refuse to see it, so you take offense.

Example? Imagine a man spoke about and treated women like this:

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You’d call the man sexist, childish, regressive, etc. But when a woman does it, it’s brave, honest, and also men’s fault.

Perhaps of you put the responses to your actions through the lens of swapped sexes, you would see theyre often just rightfully criticizing you for your bad actions. At least based on your previous posts and tendencies.

fact-agenda:

The facts about Gender Dysphoria

Gender Dysphoria is a mental condition. It isn’t a feeling, it’s a mental condition. You don’t just wake up and say, “I’m the opposite gender just because I wear what that gender wears. HAHAHAHA!”

According to the National Institute of Health or (NIH), Gender dysphoria (GD), according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM 5), is defined as a “marked incongruence between their experienced or expressed gender and the one they were assigned at birth.”

It is unknown what causes Gender Dysphoria, some say it’s assigned at birth, some say it comes from abuse, it is unknown what causes it. Many people go through therapy to get help and others will do a transition to the opposite gender and become a Transsexual, this is the CORRECT historical term and I will use it. This will help them look the opposite gender but they cannot change their DNA. When they die and their bones are dug up, they will still be male or female. Those are the only two genders that exist. You are a man or a woman, nothing else.

While children can experience gender dysphoria, it is recommended that they experience puberty before taking any medication or surgery. To make it simple, let them grow up into an adult.

Children CANNOT be trans, plain and simple.

Kids are stupid. They don’t know what they want. A transgender kid is like a vegan cat. We know who is doing it.

Everyone at some point in time experiences being uncomfortable with their body. For girls, it can be big breasts or their periods. For boys, it can develop into muscle dysmorphia, A type of BDD that affects men and is characterized by an obsessive desire to have a more muscular body. Men with muscle dysmorphia may engage in dangerous behaviors to build muscle, such as excessive exercise, strict dieting, and abusing anabolic steroids. Muscle dysmorphia can lead to exercise addiction and eating disorders.

It is recommended that they go through counseling to help with these feelings or just go through puberty. Again, just let them grow up.

Girls can be tom boys without needing to be a boy. Boy can like girl things, dolls, dress-up, etc, without needing to be a girl.

Very often, kids feel a sexual attraction to the same gender and that is confused with Gender Dysphoria. NEVER confuse this with being trans. Kids can be gay, lesbian, or bisexual at a young age but not understand those feelings because they don’t see these relationships on TV.

Keep in mind, only 7% of the US population is gay, lesbian, or bisexual. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, gender dysphoria prevalence accounts for 0.005–0.014% of the population for biological males and 0.002–0.003% for biological females. It’s extremely low and you can’t just trust what someone says. There are men who are taking the trans identity and using it to hurt women. You can’t just call yourself trans without going through counseling because if you just trust someone’s word, then you are going to hurt more people than help them.

The surgery isn’t always needed. Not every person with Gender dysphoria grows up into a transexual adult. Any sane transsexual will tell you that. Blaire White, Buck Angel, Sara Higdon are all transsexuals on YouTube I recommend watching and they will tell you that many people regret the surgery because they weren’t told the risks that they would have.

Below are videos of detransitioners giving their stories on the truth of transitioning. They are not traitors to the alphabet community, they aren’t transphobic, they are people who were tricked by a doctor who cared more about money than the person’s safety.


adalheidis-exclusionist-corner:

As a female I’m saying this.

Radical Feminism and Feminism is absolute cancer. We don’t need Feminism at all in America. I’m not oppressed because I’m a woman. I’m not opressed at all. Women aren’t oppressed in America. Just stop.

free-my-mindd:

As long as you know your intentions are pure, never stress yourself about anything or anyone. You have to trust that you will always end up being where you’re meant to be and that it’s never your loss respectfully.

adlibitur:

adlibitur:

Begging y'all to stop acting like you can just remove organs with no negative consequences.

Hysterectomy is associated with new mental health conditions, increased cardiovascular and metabolic morbidity, trouble with ovarian function (2), incontinence increases, pelvic organ fistulas, heart disease, increased cancer risk, increased overall worse outcomes, and more.

Oophorectomy before natural menopause is associated with multiple conditions including accelerated aging even without pre-existing conditions, negative effects on long term health, it has significant neurodegenerative effects (2 & 3 & 4), ovarian conservation is important to mortality rates (2), substantial cardiovascular risk, it does NOT cure endometriosis, it associated with even causing chronic fatigue, just to name a few. Even the menopause society themselves have advised against their removal before natural menopause because of how substantial the negative effects on the body are.

People are reblogging this for a lot of reasons but I posted this because I was told multiple times by multiple specialists and medical providers that: “a hysterectomy and oophorectomy are ways to be done with endometriosis”, that “there aren’t any consequences to early surgical menopause other than not being able to have kids” and maybe some mild bone depletion, and that “there just isnt any research on surgical menopause in younger women” which was put in my chart

and yet all of these things are in fact false.

I was never told that the uterus and ovaries are important for other health reasons even though I specifically asked, and was instead told the opposite.

I wasn’t given any of the information above. When I tried to bring up anything similar, I was sternly told the opposite- that these organs were easy to remove and that it wasn’t a big deal unless you wanted children.

So the least I can do is take the stockpile of articles I keep in my notes on my phone and share them so that someone else can have the information I had to find on my own after the fact, given the endometriosis specialist took my healthy organs anyway and committed medicaid fraud to get himself paid.

So, enjoy my link stockpile, but very gently I am pointing out this is about the procedures in the most general informed consent sense. I see people saying in the tags that this information “wont change any minds” and that is simply not true- I would have run for the hills from any provider suggesting these things as necessary had I known a) how much that wasn’t true or helpful but also b) how devastating the health consequences would be on top of the health problems I have already, because c) most physicians are absolute dogshit at informed consent because they themselves are under false impressions about these procedures as well. I have met many, MANY healthcare workers who have a very poor understanding of hysterectomy and or oophorectomy consequences including people who have had them done themselves and STILL have misunderstandings about it.

so yeah.

thehopefulquotes:

“Not everyone deserves to know the real you. Let them criticize who they think you are.”

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